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What people perceive

Is this a true statement or is the truth no one cares enough to ask … you decide …

In my opinion, YEAH I know opinions are like assholes & everyone as one unfortunately for you this has never kept me from giving my opinion anyway.

If one is strong or not if those in your life don’t care enough to ask if you’re okay chances are they don’t give a rat’s ass & with this said maybe you need to reassess your relationship. If someone is only going to be there when everything is smelling like a spring garden but not there by your side caring how you are emotionally what good are they? Loving someone is being by your side throughout the roll coaster ride called life with it’s dips,turns,loops,low & high points. It’s caring enough to hold you down when shit gets rough,it’s coasting along holding your hand during the times when the storms have passed when you are walking in the world when the sun is warming your faces and holding on for dear life to one another when the storms are raging. It’s not allowing one to drown in the raging tide of an emotional overload. If one is not sure how to respond with words more often than not someone just being present holding you close & listening with their heart as you crumble emotionally promotes complete healing faster than if matters are over looked sweeping them under the f &^% proverbial old rug. When you’re in a relationship & your partner isn’t there for you during the times of breaking what the hell are they there for? Is not a relationship made of two people caring for one another? If the so called relationship is one sided with you being the one always holding the other up or down whichever the situation calls for,you are in a selfish self- centered arrangement that is centered around him/her with no balance. Love is thinking of another before one’s self. If you’re giving more than you receive or what you receive is short lived & in this I mean the little support you receive quickly turns to anger on your partner’s end chances are your partner is a self- centered ass who needs to grow up & realize the world was not created for them nor are they god. This person is a self serving emotional oppressor who makes everything about them not caring about you but needs you to feed their ego. My advice is from Madea,” YOU CAN  DO BAD ALL BY  YOURSELF  ”

GET OUT WITH NEVER LOOKING BACK HONEY… LOVE & RESPECT YOURSELF MORE THAN THIS FOR YOU ARE THE APPLE OF GOD’S EYE,YOU ARE FEARFULLY & WONDERFULLY MADE… PEOPLE ONLY TREAT YOU HOW YOU ALLOW THEM TO TREAT YOU.

I have learned God is God all by himself  he doesn’t need a man to bless me for everything I obtain is by Him only & if the man I’m with doesn’t realize what God has given him then that’s on him. I will not stay to be abused mentally or physically.. If there’s anything you glean from this post please consider this…

You were loved,valued, deemed worthy and honored before entering the womb don’t allow someone to rob you of these things God has given you before birth for some narcissistic asshole on earth.

 

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